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Sticks & Stones May Break My Bones But Names Will Never Hurt Me!
Right? WRONG!
Have you heard this saying before? Most kids were taught this rhyme by their mothers when being picked on by bullies in school. In fact there is a country song out right now by Amanda Wilkinson called, “Nobody Died”. Have you heard it? I like it, it’s kind of catchy BUT it’s not true. In fact people do die from being called names, it just usually happens later on in life when the names and illness are so spread apart by years that one forgets the original cause of the illness and blames it on the environment or genetics or some bad luck.
Did you know that your subconscious mind remembers and holds on to every single thing you have heard, seen and felt since the time you were born? In fact, between the ages of 0 – 5 children are in their subconscious mind the entire time. And since the subconscious mind does not judge, does not know the difference between right and wrong and does not filter information as true or false this can be a great way for kids to learn new skills and abilities such as walking, talking, tying shoe laces, washing dishes, reading and writing, etc. But it can also be a way for children to learn that they aren’t wanted or don’t deserve to be loved or that work must be hard to be worthwhile or that rich people are bad and greedy or that they’ll never amount to anything or that their dream spouse is too good to be true and can’t really exist (especially for them), and that good things happen to those people but never to us, etc., etc., etc.
If a child hears from its playmates that, “You can’t play with us because you’re too ugly (or too stupid, or too skinny, or too fat, or too tall, or too short, etc.) We don’t want you around us. Get lost and leave us alone.” That child could hold on to a belief of being ‘not good enough’ or ‘not being likeable’ and from that point forward any comments even remotely resembling this one, for the rest of their life, will simply compound the original belief from childhood and make it even more powerful thereby limiting them more and more and more over the years until the point were the original non-supportive beliefs gets manifested into something in their reality, either as a physical ailment, financial issue, abusive relationship, anxiety or depression, etc.
I’ve seem it many times in people who come in with problems to our seminars. Deep down they have a belief that ‘they hurt others by being alive’, especially if there were difficulties during pregnancy and/or birth. Or they might believe, ‘I don’t deserve to be happy because others get hurt or mad whenever I’m having fun’, this happens especially when kids try to play with parents only to be told, “leave me alone and go play by yourself, I’m too tired to be bothered by you right now”.
Did anything like this ever happen to you? If not, what did?
These non-supportive beliefs systems are one of the leading causes of illness and disease today. In fact, they also largely attribute to financial struggle, poor relationships, being unhappy and unfulfilled in careers, not getting along with your children, being overweight, smoking or other addictions. Feelings of inadequacy or not being good enough can make it very difficult for adults to take risks, to make cold calls, to ask for the sale or for a raise, to approach the man/woman of their dreams, to ask for what they want, to act in spite of fear.
Did you know that the number one fear in North America is a fear of public speaking however what this really is attributed to is a fear of rejection, mostly coming from our early school years when teachers got mad at us or beat us for making a mistake or kids laughed at us when we read the wrong word or said the wrong thing or didn’t dress the right way.
You see, many people are holding on to these non-supportive beliefs from childhood forgetting how and when and why they actually formed and then as adults they can’t figure out what is wrong with them or better yet how to change what is wrong with them or how to get out of debt or be free from disease or abusive relationships. But the reality is that once people get the awareness of where their issue is coming from and go through the process of healing and forgiveness that we teach they can learn how to truly live in their purpose with wonderful relationships all around them, great health and lots of abundance supporting their every decision.
Let me give a starting point to help you clear these limitations although we really recommend that you go through the entire process to learn how to truly be free. Here’s the exercise: Take some time right now to write down a list of names that you were called in school. Then imagine confronting each person that said something nasty to you and tell them out loud exactly how that made the child within you feel at that time. Go ahead and let it all out here. Yell, kick (the air only), scream, swear, etc. until you feel negative emotional leave you. Then imagine looking that person in the eyes and tell them how you feel about them now that you released those stuck emotions. Before you open your eyes, imagine yourself in the future taking different actions as a result of being free from those names.
Do this with each person who said something mean to you. By the time you’re done you should feel amazing and empowered once again!
Take a look at our upcoming Accelerated Money, Mind & Health Transformational Seminar on our sister site at www.freedomwithpurpose.com. This free course will take you through the expanded version of what will be seen on The Opus Movie, which is known as The Secret #2.
Call Full Circle Hypnosis Inc. today for more information 403-873-7501 or email an inquiry to info@fullcirclehypnosis.com
