How About This For a First Date!

 

This is a note for men or women, but particularly the person who is organizing the first date for a person that you have finally connected with and so much want to find out about.

 

Today, people of many ages are dating, sometimes seeking their first love of their life, or others who are experiencing the dating scene all over again, having come through a previous relationship now going out again. Yes, maybe there is an element of just wanting to have fun, but why not make every date one that you will always remember.

 

After all, isn’t that perfect person out there someone that we may not realize is the right one on the first date but after a time you realize is your best friend? Are there stories of people that met someone on the first date and said a year later that they were smitten the first moment they saw the person that they eventually married?

Here’s a tip to spice up the lives of anyone seeking to have a healthy and exciting relationship, and yes, whether the relationship works out or not, offers amazing memories right from the get go:

 

Take action and plan the perfect date EVERY TIME you go on a first date. Yes, every time. After all, we all want the perfect relationship, don’t we? Why not do something truly special. Guys, it’s what women want! Gals, guys love being surprised, don’t they!

  

Given I am speaking from a guy’s perspective and it is my desire to help people have abundant romantic and long lasting relationships, I will focus on what women want. So, what are a few ideas you can do to make for the perfect first date:

1. Pack your backpack complete with blanket, wine, cheese, flowers, cutting board and knife (you have to cut cheese out there guys), bottle opener, cups, napkins, and don’t forget the grapes (feeding them to each other is so much fun). Let her know the time you’ll be picking her up and ask her to dress casual and wear runners. Whisk her off to the mountains or a beach or harbour, somewhere you can walk and find a quiet place.

2. Dress up and go dancing, when both people know how. It allows closeness and touching without being suggestive. And, you'll get exercise!

 

Remember guys, the first date is not about you (for that matter it’s never about you J, it’s about finding out about her, eye contact (which she loves) and listening, really listening.

 

If life is about promising yourself to always live in abundance of love and spirit, then it only makes sense that every first date be a memorable one, whether a second date was meant to be or not.

 

Cheers to great relationships! … and GREAT first dates!!!

Cliff Alexander, The Love Doctor (as featured on The Opus Movie, aka: The Secret #2)

Email: drlove@freedomwithpurpose.com

 

P.S. I would love your feedback on this article and any ideas you may have on topics of interest for romance, relationships, divorce, separation, dating etc. that I might be able to feature in our next newsletter and on the Dr. Love Radio Show.

 

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